Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Let It Will Be

Don't it make you smile
Let it will be
Just let it be
Won't you let it be

We use to have this view that, when you start seeing someone, there's some definite line that tells just what category your relationship status is. Like, 'seeing someone' to 'dating' to 'couples' and such. Of course, we guess the pertinent bits that interest us would be, "So when did both of you confirmed couple?" And come to think of it, we'd never had to ask anyone before - we were always told about it after leering at them long enough.

Come to think of it, we needed someone to explain to us the difference between 'seeing someone' and 'dating'...seems like there's certain things you do that puts you in one category or the other, and we don't remember how it goes.

So how have things been for the Chief and us? Well, we're guilty of expecting that things would happen gradually (weeks? months? can't say) but of course things don't always happen as one would expect. That things have been developing well, no awkward moments, communications are good and that we're happy with how things are going, we're not complaining.

'It's complicated'? Nope.

Yes, there may have been bits that would cause Paul to rush to the toilet to throw up but no, it's not so overly sappy...

Yet.

After all, there are some things that may have sounded sappy before but it doesn't now. And there are some things that need to be said if and when possible, because they need to be said rather than kept silent and taken for granted.

So, is it going too fast? Well - so far things are going right (as we both feel), which would mean more than going too fast or too slow. And as long as things are right, we'll let things happen as we go along.

13 comments:

MrBunnyBan said...

Yays! Hurrah for not rushing and not being too cautious. :) Be sure to keep us updated so that we don't have to make it up ourselves. :P

William said...

Ohhhhhh... jodoh datang bergolek! There's no rush, true. But don't let things be toooo ambiguous. Clear milestones are always a good thing.

FeR said...

oooooooooooooo...

whoooooooooooooooo

*curious*

Alex said...

Congratulations!!!! :) All the best for both of you... Always sabar.... :)

hrugaar said...

I have no idea what the difference is between 'seeing someone' and 'dating', I've heard them used interchangeably but I suppose it varies between semantic groups (in a similar fashion, one friend of mine here has personal distinctions between skint, penniless and broke, to define varying degress of poverty ... go figure).

Still not sure about calling him 'The Chief', but perhaps that's just my personal semantics kicking in...

savante said...

There is no need to generalize and label your relationship. Just take things at your own pace.

Jason said...

Yay...! Take your time to discover the things between the two of you. ;)

Aik Yong said...

oooooo....

my turn to say....

TTDI toyboy!!!

adrien said...

there goes another member of the singles club. lol.

don't label yourself. let people judge. ;)

Sam said...

As long as both the Chief (*snicker*) and you feel that it's just right, then you're good. :D

3-Seconder said...

OOoOOoOoOOoOOooo!!!

*same response to FeR*

Hehe! Whatever it is, hey, I'm happy for you! It's always nice to have someone there for you. To care, share, trust, love, laugh and cry with you :)

Hey, keep us updated ya! ;)

N.J.A.P.F. said...

Sooooooo...after all the teasers and sneak previews when do we get to meet The Chief in person? :)

Janvier said...

Ban: But it is fun listening to what y'all come up with!

William: Will keep that in mind!

FeR: Happy hor now you knows? :P

Alex: Thanks!

Hrugaar: Just semantics then, but we shan't be bothered by them.

Savante: Away with labels!

Jason: Will do!

Aik Yong: And we cannot call you Bangsar Toyboy anymore. Bangsar Loukong!

Adrien: Lesse...we've joined the 27 Club and left the Singles Club, still in the CamClub...goodness how many more clubs have we all?

Sam: And it's good, it is!

3-Seconder: Thanks ya! Will keep you posted. :P

NJAPF: One of these days ya we'll get to meet. ;P